Travel in Brunei: 13 must-know travel tips for Brunei Darussalam

I chose to visit Brunei Darussalam this year after two Bruneian friends invited me to visit Bandar Seri Begawan. I love reading blogs, but I can’t believe how wrong some of them were about travel in Brunei for Westerners.

Let’s set the record straight about must-knows before you travel to Brunei, what to wear in Brunei without offending folks, and what to expect when traveling in Brunei. (Thanks to B., C., and D. for showing us around Brunei.)

Don’t underestimate this small Asian sultanate

A lot of people only visit one or two days in Brunei, but I’d say at least four days in Brunei is perfect.  There’s more to do than people realize, so if you’re only visiting Brunei for two days, you won’t get to visit Ulu Temburong National Park.  It’s a fascinating country and not the kind to rush through.

Controversial statement: Bruneians are some of the friendliest people you’ll meet while traveling

Bruneians LOVE tourists and Brunei might be one of the friendliest places to visit in the world. Every single street, people would welcome me to Brunei before asking where I’m from.

Even as we got onto a bus going to Malaysia, we were welcomed to Brunei by a friendly local who passed by the luggage hold.  (It was a bit awkward to explain we were about to get on the bus to Miri.) Bruneians absolutely love travel, so expect to hear some stories about what they thought of your country too.

The whole reason I went to Brunei was that I met two girls from Brunei who invited me to visit Brunei.  This was years ago.  True to their word, our Bruneian hosts showed us around, took us out to dinner, and tried to ensure that we tried traditional Bruneian food by showing them a little slice of their lives in Brunei.  My most important tip: Make Bruneian friends! I recommend using Couchsurfing to make new friends.

Sharia law doesn’t apply to everyone in the same way, but use your judgment

Brunei has sharia law, but sharia law doesn’t equally apply to non-Muslims depending on the law.  This is a bigmisconception I see on a lot of blogs written about travel in Brunei.  This was told to us by so many people and although I had no plans to break the law, I was a bit nervous before our trip.

Once we were in Brunei, I was shocked how laid-back Brunei felt.  That said, don’t be stupid and stick to your best behavior as tourists are still a rarity in Brunei. We don’t need a bad reputation abroad (We’re both Americans…)

Many Bruneians that we met were frustrated by Brunei’s perception abroad, due to stories by sensationalist newspapers elsewhere. This is not to say that you should be careless, but it’s good to stay informed about recent changes in Brunei, including the 2019 update to Sharia law in regards to theft and homosexuality.

Tourists are beloved, but still, try to be respectful and use your judgment.  This involves trying just a little bit with dressing respectfully with not wearing sheer/ripped clothing that might attract attention at home.

Brunei is boring if you’re trying to party in Brunei

My mother-in-law likes to say only boring people get bored.  A lot of people find Brunei boring as it doesn’t have nightlife, but we loved Brunei.  I went all in trying to experience local Bruneian culture and came with an open mind.

I had a slightly different experience as someone who almost entirely spent their time with Bruneians while in Brunei, but we’d spend our late nights sitting on the balcony of Kem’s homestay in the Kampong Ayer water village chatting away with her.

• No, you can’t wear your short shorts.
• Yes, there are no nightclubs or bars.
• Yes, there’s no alcohol sold in most of Brunei. However, it’s allowed if you’re drinking the homemade rice wine with the Iban in the Temburong district during the harvest festival.

That said, Bruneians love lingering at coffee shops and restaurants over long dinners and coffees at night, so you’ll find many restaurants open until 10/11pm still serving food.

If you’re into culture, sustainable tourism, and elaborate architecture, you will probably enjoy traveling in Brunei.

Bruneians are proud of their country and happy to show a little piece of Brunei to foreigners, but you also need to be interested in experiencing Brunei. If you’re following the Southeast Asia party route, you’ll hate Brunei.

How to dress appropriately in Brunei

Although I read a lot of blogs about travel in Brunei and I asked a lot of people about what was appropriate to wear in Brunei, so I came off my flight wearing a hijab, a long-sleeve shirt, and a long skirt.  Immigration asked me if I was Muslim. I had to explain that I was trying to be respectful before the officer was like …. Thanks, but you don’t need to try hard.  Okay officer. 😉

I was lucky to visit friends in Brunei who told me not to worry much about appropriate clothes in Brunei while other female travelers in the travel community told me to dress very conservatively.

I think somewhere in between the two is best as one girl at our homestay did not dress appropriately (crop tops / sheer clothing / short shorts with rips) both inside/outside the home. It was not appreciated by our host.

Brunei is very humid and as a tourist, you’ll be walking around in the heat day-time, so keep this in mind when looking for clothing for Brunei.

What to wear in Brunei for women

What did I wear in Brunei? Most days, I wore a non-sheer loose fitting t-shirt, jeans, a silk scarf, and sandals.

On some days, I wore a tulle skirt (MISTAKE as it is a really heavy material) with a t-shirt. I’d recommend a lighter material.

Do not wear short shorts in Brunei and stick to lighter fabrics (think cottons). If you’re planning on visiting the national park, bring a bathing suit to go swimming in the waterfall!

Just in general, avoid excessive skin, cleavage, sheer clothing, and clothing with holes that might be seen as revealing. Use your judgment and try to dress appropriately in Brunei.

To get into the major mosques in Brunei, they will give you a garment to wear over your clothes and as well as a hijab, so no need to bring your own.

You see some Bruneian women dressed more conservatively, but I saw some women who were not Muslim wearing shorts (let me clarify: knee-length shorts). For women, I’d recommend a comfy appropriate skirt/t-shirt combination with a cotton/silk scarf.

I recommend a scarf as it’s nice to be able to cover up your arms when you’re in restaurants/cafes as the air conditioning can be quite high and you don’t want anything heavy.

I don’t recommend a dress as I ended up sweating through my dress while walking around day-time.

A skirt/t-shirt combination allows more possibilities for a clean outfit if you’re not packing a lot of clothes as you can just swap your t-shirt out for a clean one the next day!

For going out to eat at sit-down Bruneian restaurants, bring a nice modest knee-length dress as eating out is a big deal in Brunei. People definitely dress up for a nice sit-down dinner, so I recommend getting dolled up with a nice dress and makeup.

What to wear in Brunei for men

For men, we’d recommend wearing pants with a plain t-shirt (preferably white to help with the heat) are okay. My husband is a metalhead and toned it down while we were in Brunei although we saw some wearing printed/band t-shirts (although not metal t-shirts) around Brunei. We did see some Westerners in knee-length shorts too.

Politics are better not discussed.

Be careful what you say about Brunei, especially about the Sultan.  This is a sensitive topic, with legal implications, and it’s best not to discuss politics in Brunei, especially if you have something critical to say.  Remember: Brunei does not have freedom of speech.

Public transit isn’t that commonly used.

I asked my Bruneian friends about it and they drive everywhere. If you’re visiting without a car, be wary of planning your journey entirely by public bus.  There is a bus from the airport to the city center, but it does not run late.

Brunei’s waterfront is fairly walkable, however for further distances or on especially hot days, you will want to take a taxi.  It’s best to stay close to the city center unless you’re willing to splurge on taxis. (Note:  there aren’t that many hotels in Brunei, so book ahead as the good ones sell out.)

For taxis (or something similar to Uber), download Dart to get rides around Brunei. This is a local app where you can provide your location, see the cost, and have a local taxi driver pick you up.

Bruneian food y’all.

I thought  Singaporeans loved food, but I had never visited Brunei.  Bruneians are HUGE foodies, so don’t leave without trying ambuyat and sampling the Bruneian food at the night markets. The seafood is fresh and very spicy, so if you see a local food centre, consider trying some seafood.  I swear, I gained 5 pounds while in Brunei.

A local also recommends ‘Nasi Katok’ .  I had a number of traditional dishes and I wish that I could remember the names of all the food that I had.  Just be adventurous and it will be delicious ( I hope).  I also really loved the dried squid with chili.

Everyone speaks English and people are super friendly

Bruneians speak flawless English.  In case you forgot, Brunei used to be a British protectorate, so not surprisingly, English is still taught in schools.  That said, many menus may be in Malay, but if you ask, the locals are happy to help.

Don’t miss Ulu Temburong National Park

Brunei may produce a lot of oil, but the government has made significant conservation efforts to preserve its incredible environment, and Brunei has some of the best preserved virgin rainforests in the world.

60% of the country is made up of virgin rainforest, which is unaffected by human activity.  The parts of Ulu Temburong that the public can access are limited, but incredible.

From the top of the slightly terrifying canopy bridge (not for those with a fear of heights..), you an see rainforest for miles… and the boat ride upstream in a traditional boat is worth it.

Read tips for visiting Ulu Temburong National Park.

LGBT rights

We can’t avoid talking about LGBT rights in Brunei as many people avoid going to Brunei for this specific reason.  Let’s be clear: there’s a death penalty for same-sex sexual activity, and non-gender conforming people may have issues. Recent changes in Bruneian law mean that LGBT travelers should show significant caution prior to traveling in Brunei.

We met some LGBT travelers who told us that LGBT travelers could visit Brunei with no problems with some precautions regarding appearances, getting separate hotel rooms if traveling together, not posting photos on social media, keeping a low profile, and being very careful as the government takes homosexuality seriously.

That said, travelers who are coming to Brunei will be surprised by the friendliness of its citizens towards any foreign tourists, but it’s your call if you’re willing to visit a country where homosexuality is illegal and enforced by law. I think that Meg Cale’s article about travel in anti-LGBT destinations is a good read if you’re on the fence.

Brunei isn’t cheap

You’ll find hotel prices in Brunei similar to prices in Singapore although hotel prices were surprisingly high.

If you’re coming from Malaysian Borneo, brace yourself for hotel prices that are generally higher than $50.  Homestays are catching on within Brunei, so consider doing a homestay if you want to experience a bit beyond the hotel.

 We stayed at the Kunyit 7 Lodge, a sustainable tourism homestay in the middle of the Kampong Ayer water village.  Book your accommodation in Brunei as there’s not that many hotels in BSB.  The good ones that are affordable book up. I was about to book two different hotels and both rooms actually sold out for the dates that we visited Brunei in December after I waited a few days just to decide. 

Check hotel prices in BSB now! 

Nearly all the attractions in BSB are free, so expect to save some money on sightseeing although you’ll end up spending money on drinking ice cold coffee as it’s pretty hot day time.  Similarly, visiting Ulu Temburong isn’t cheap, but it’s worth it 100%.

In Bandar Seri Begawan, don’t miss the Kampong Ayer water village

I’ve visited a lot of countries and a lot places, but few places have inspired such awe in my mind.  Kampong Ayer is a fully functional village on stilts and it’s not just for tourists; people actually live there. I have no idea how it’s not a UNESCO attraction, but I suspect that it might become one in the future.  See it before the rest of the world discovers it…

When is the best time to visit Brunei?

Probably not summer as it’s hot year-round, but especially hot in summer.

There are four great times to visit Brunei:

• July 15th for the Sultan’s Birthday. If you’re considering visiting for the Sultan’s birthday, bring a fancy modest outfit that covers your arms, closed toe shoes, and a hijab (ladies). You will not be admitted otherwise. There’s a long line to get in, but if you’re curious what the sultan’s palace looks like, this is your chance to get in!  According to a kind local, you will only see the Sultan’s car on this day.
• Apparently the best day is Eid Day (date varies).  Men will be able to meet the Sultan while women can meet the Queen.

• We were luckily enough to visit just in time for the Regatta to see the boats racing on the Brunei river.  There’s a few each year, so check for events ahead.
• If you’re into fireworks and celebrations, visit for the National Day celebrations on February 23rd.

• June 1st for the Harvest Festival in the eastern part of the country.   It might shock people visiting Brunei for the first time, but there are non-Muslims living in Brunei.  One of the major ethnic groups of Brunei is Iban.  The Iban have their own culture and villages in the Temburong province, so consider visiting to take part in the annual harvest festival in Bangar.  It’s considered lucky if the vat of homemade rice wine prepared by each family is finished before the end of the festival, so non-Muslims, expect to give some assistance.

Have you been to Brunei? What do you recommend that tourists traveling in Brunei know?

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